“The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water.”
Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.”The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’;for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.”The woman said to him, “Sir, I perceive that you are a prophet. Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship.”” (John 4:15–20 ESV)
The Providence of God had divinely orchestrated this conversation before time began. Jesus offers her living water BEFORE He discusses her sinful lifestyle. God always initiates, woos and draws. This woman was a total outcast, but Jesus saw through her brokenness to her need. She was a:
- Racial outcast. Samaritans were ½ breeds that were despised by the Jews and Gentiles alike (Luke 10:33; 17:16; John 8:48).
- Gender outcast. She was a woman. Women were not highly valued in the first century.
- Moral outcast. She had been married five times and was currently living with a man. She was trading sex for rent; she was looking to satisfy her thirst in a relationship with a man.
- Community outcast. Probably due to her decisions in life, she was a societal or relational outcast. She went to draw water in the middle of the day – the rest of the women would draw water in the morning or in the evening. She was alone. It was hot in the middle of the day, most people would have been resting.
She was an outsider that didn’t feel like she belonged anywhere. She was alone. She was religious, but her religion lacked the power to deliver her from the darkness in which she lived. She was looked down upon, a status that she likely all too easily embraced. She felt useless, meaningless, hopeless and alone. Why in the world would the Creator come to such a sinful, hopeless and insignificant person? Because Jesus came to seek and save the lost; Jesus came to find His lost sheep; Jesus came to redeem people just like this woman. The messiest people become the greatest trophies of His majesty and grace. We are all messy people, some are just better at hiding it than others. What a beautiful picture of grace.
It seems apparent that she does not understand what Jesus was talking about, but wants some of the water that He has to offer if it keeps her from having to continuously go to the well to draw water for herself. Her daily trip to the well must have been a painful reminder of her aloneness – anything that would eliminate that reminder was welcome. Shame tends to cause us to hide, withdraw and isolate.
Jesus tells her to go and call her husband, and she responds with a technically correct answer, but her answer does not tell the whole story. Jesus steps into her moral failure and filth. He reveals her sin and His deity by telling her that He knows that she has had FIVE HUSBANDS and was currently living with a man who was not her husband. You have to wonder what caused her to be so broken. The Almighty knew all of this about her, and still engaged her and showed grace and mercy to her. She already knew her sin and shame, what she needed was to be freed from it. Her own thirst had driven her to chase destructive things in her life. Jesus came to satisfy her thirst forever, setting her truly free.
She wants to change the subject. She does not want to discuss her life – its way too close to home. She wants to discuss God, worship and the differences between her (a Samaritan) and Him (a Jew). She wants to talk religion and Jesus graciously obliges her. She knew that she was unclean, unworthy and dirty (the law reveals our sin) and being reminded of that was more than she could bare.
Jesus makes unclean people clean. More than that, He makes unclean people, holy people. Even the offer of freedom and forgiveness is more than she can imagine. It had been a long time since she had experienced hope. Hope that she could be free, different, clean and truly loved. She was beginning to sense that redemption was possible; she was beginning to believe that redemption was here. It was and she was talking to the Redeemer.